Paula JANINE Gough

1971 - 2006
LocationMexborough
Age35 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth20/01/1971
Date of Death28/09/2006
Visitors25,482 since 24/07/2007
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20TH JANUARY 2009. I WOULD LIKE TO THANK EACH AND EVERY ONE OF MY LOVELY GTS FRIENDS FOR ALL
THEIR KIND WORDS, TRIBUTES CANDLES, PICTURES AND GIFTS FOR. MY LOVELY PAULA FOR HER BIRTHDAY IT HAS
MADE THIS EXEPTIONALLY DIFFICULT DAY MUCH EASIER TO GET THROUGH . I NEVER REALISED I HAVE SUCH
AMAZING FRIENDS THANK YOU ALL SO SO MUCH. LOVE MARGARET x x x

It's 2 yrs on Sunday 28th Sept
2008,since Paula passed,we love and miss her as much today as the day she died,she is forever in
our thoughts.I would like to thank everyone of you that has lit a candle ,left a tribute ,or a
picture.for my beautiful girl over the last year,Thank You So Much.
Paula has a little boy called Christian Aged 8 She was diagnosed with Myeloma
(Bone Marrow Cancer ) Nov 2004 She had a Stem cell transplant Easter 2006 at the Royal Marsden
Hospital Surrey After finding out Paula had this terrible disease we took her to Marsden because its
renound as being the best Cancer hospital She had a Stem Cell Transplant using her own cells Easter
2005 unfortunatley it didnt make any differance.So in August2006 she moved to Nottingham Hospital to
undergo a Stem Cell Transplant from a donor.The reason she moved to Nottingham hospital was so that
her family wouldnt have as much traveling.But that was Paula always thinking about others instead of
herself .Unfortunatley Paula passed over on 28th Sept 2006,She is loved and missed so much by
everyone that knew her.Daughter of Margaret and David Worley .Husband to Darren,and Sister to Adele
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good taste

Just to let you know I think you and philippa would get on , well you like the same music, so dont forget to dance like no ones watching.

my thoughts are with you steven , margaret and adele its so hard and unfair to lose a young mum, sister , daughter , one day at a time. xxx

Fran Roberts (Friend) November 5, 2007

We never stop to measure
Anything we might just miss
But if the wind should blow by softly
You'll feel an Angels Kiss
A Kiss thats sent from Heaven
A Kiss from up above
A Kiss thats very special
From someone that you love
For in your pain and sorrow
A Kiss will help you through
This Kiss is very private
For its meant for only you
So when are hearts are heavy
And filled with tears and pain
And no-one can console you
Remember once again
About the ones you grieve for
Because you sadly miss
And that gentle breeze you took for granted
Was just......an Angels Kiss x

Yvonne Debbie Rushton Mum (Friend) October 25, 2007

another angel taken to soon

so sorry for your loss. life seems so very unfair to take a young mother away from their children.
im sure shes looking down on you all
love to all family
tracy xxxx

Tracy (some1 who cares) October 25, 2007

Ask My Mum How Is She

My Mum, she tells a lot of lies
She never did before.
From now until the day she dies.
She'll tell a whole lot more.

She used to tell the truth, a lot
But now it doesn't matter.
I died and went to heaven,
Her life is all a-shatter.

Ask my Mum how is she.
She'll say, 'Yes, I'm fine!'
She wants to beg 'Please help me.
I can't find that boy of mine!'

Ask my Mum, how is she,
She'll say, 'I'm alright.'
If that's the truth then tell me,
Why does she cry each night?

Ask my Mum, how is she,
She seems to cope so well.
She didn't have a choice, you see,
Nor the strength to yell.

You think you know the feeling,
But this cannot be.
For even though you loved me,
You didn't love as much as she.

She will smile and tell you,
'It's o.k. God has a plan.'
But she will turn away and cry
'Cause she just can't understand.

Tell a joke and she will laugh,
But she is not o.k.
She wants to share the joke with me,
But it will not be today.

I watch from here, in Heaven.
Her distress disturbs my peace.
Will someone please take care of her,
And thus take care of me?

'Some day you will feel better.'
'Yes I will.' she lies.
She knows this will not happen,
Until the day she dies.

'I was so lucky!
I had him all those years!'
They passed in a minute,
I shed so many tears.

Ask my Mum how is she,
She'll say, 'Thank you. Good.'
She cannot tell you how she feels.
Oh, how I wish she could.

Ask my Mum how is she,
'I'm fine, I'm well, I'm coping.'
For God's sake, Mum, just tell the truth
Just say your heart is broken.

Ask my Mum how is she,
'I'm well, I'm good. And you?'
I'll shake my head in Heaven.
It simply isn't true.

She'll love me all her life.
I loved her all of mine.
But if you ask how is she,
She'll lie and say she's fine.

Her carnival is over.
She's stepped off the carousel.
But, to save you feeling badly,
She'll say, 'Thanks, all is well.'

My Mum, she's not gone mad, yet.
But, oh so very nearly.
Don't ask my Mum how is she,
Ask how is she, really.

I am here in Heaven.
I cannot hug from here.
If she lies to you, don't listen.
Hug her, hold her near.

On the day we meet again,
We'll smile and I'll be bold.
I'll say, 'You're lucky to get in here, Mum,
With all the lies you told

Jenny Brooker (Friend) October 23, 2007

with love paula and your son

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Sending you a Truck full of love Always!

Yvonne Debbie Rushton Mum (Friend) October 20, 2007

God Bless you All

I picture you walking up the path
and walking through the door
I listen out for your gentle laugh
but i cant hear it anymore

I hold my hands out everyday
Hoping for your gentle touch
But i dont feel your warm hands touch me
Its a feeling i miss so much

I wait for you to wipe my tears
But you want yours wiping too
And everyday still hurts so much
Because my life is missing you

I keep your memory in my soul
It burns so bright each day
And all the things i have in my mind
Theres three words i want to say

I Miss You

Ricky Debbie Stringer (Friend) October 20, 2007

Hi Thanks for nathans candle I know ur pain at losing ur daughter with this illness nathan had lymphoblastic leukemia for 2 years and had 2 stem cell transplants fromm a donor and 7 courses of chemo he went into remission at the end of june this year and was killed by boy racers on august 2nd 5 weeks into his remission.its such a blow to deal with considering he fought so hard. My love and thoughts to u and ur grandson, xxxxxxxxxx

Yvonne Savage (some one who cares) October 20, 2007

I am home in Heaven, dear ones; Oh so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.
All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.
Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh! but Jesus' love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.
And He came Himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on
Could I have one doubt or dread?
Then you must not grieve so sorely
For I love you dearly still:
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's Will.
There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth---
You shall rest in Jesus' land.
When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!

--author unknown
with love to you as always Andrea xxxxxx

Andrea Zigs Mam Xxx (Friend) October 20, 2007

GTS friend

Thank you for visiting Ziggy's site Margaret. Your daughter Paula was a beautiful young woman and had so much to live for. It is heartbreaking to know that people have to suffer so much with this dreadful illness. I am really glad for you that you have got your Grandson and hope it helps to ease the pain that you are feeling. I too believe that our loved ones have gone to a better place. My son Ziggy was a smashing lad kind, caring and considerate and i often think he was too good for this world though i would do anything to have him back. So take care and i hope your happy memories bring you comfort love Andrea xxx

Andrea Zigs Mam Xxx (Friend) October 18, 2007

REST IN PEACE PAULA,LOOK AFTER PAIGE FOR ME PLEASE,GIVE HER A HUG.XXX.WENDY.XX.

Wendy Anne Cleaver (Friend) October 18, 2007
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